6 Aug 2026, 07:05 UTC12 views1 reactionsread 12 August 2026 It doesn't miss the point at all. Being attracted isn't the problem. It's what comes 5 mins in after you approach her. does she stay a full person as you talk to her, or does she stay a target the whole way through?
Curiosity that’s actually about her. You ask something and you’re genuinely interested in the answer, not just waiting for your next line. When she says something surprising or funny or smart... it upda…
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6 Aug 2026, 07:05 UTC10 viewsread 12 August 2026 Btw I hope this doesn't miss the point of the article, but I was thinking about it a lot ena one question I kept coming back to while reading it concerns dating specifically.
If I meet someone in a social setting, physical attraction is usually the only reason I have to initiate a conversation(in the context of dating I mean), since I don't know anything else about her yet. Your piece made me think about the distinc…
4 Aug 2026, 21:21 UTC4 views1 reactionsread 12 August 2026 Forwarded from @cerebralsymphony
If you've ever actually listened to any woman in your life with any measure of empathy or sincerity, you have probably already heard of some, if not all, of what's been said here.
However, as a man, you don't live what's being said here. You only hear it. So hear it whenever it's said.
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4 Aug 2026, 21:16 UTC3 views2 reactionsread 12 August 2026 Forwarded from @Frosty_sirensPhoto
Okay, this is finally up.
Not a men vs women thing, not a lecture. A lot of us live in a bubble, tech, creative, liberal spaces, where things look fine for women, but there's a mindset that follows us out of it and into our own heads. I wrote a piece to show what it's actually like to move through the world as a woman, so you feel it instead of being argued at. Including what the "man-hater" is really reacting to, b…
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Béla Philosophy pinned «Table of Contents • Gendered Spaces and Objectification • On Being Seen (Frosty Siren)»
14 Jul 2026, 18:46 UTC232 views3 reactionsread 12 August 2026 So, systemically, men became the subjects, and women (and other men with less power, but that's beside the point) the objects. The male gazes at the female and judges her, whether she looks pretty enough, and proper enough. Women internalize that gaze and look at themselves through the male perspective – not through their own – because being the perfect object is rewarded, and being a subject raises some brows. Mothe…
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14 Jul 2026, 18:46 UTC171 viewsread 12 August 2026 The day before my campus graduation program, I went to a women's hair salon to get my hair braided. The owner declined my request, saying her female clients wouldn't feel comfortable. Thankfully, I found another one that accepted me and did the braids you see on the post above.
Two interesting thoughts (and corresponding conversations and research) occurred to me that day. One: Why exactly the women would feel uncom…
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Gendered Spaces and Objectification
June 26, 2026
14 Jul 2026, 18:44 UTC37 viewsread 12 August 2026 Table of Contents
• Gendered Spaces and Objectification
• On Being Seen (Frosty Siren)
14 Jul 2026, 18:43 UTC36 viewsread 12 August 2026 Welcome.
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